It can be hard when your child is losing their mind to not jump into with them and also lose your mind. The science of child development tells us that kids really need us to keep our cool when they are struggling. Here Dr Vanessa talks about how to handle your child’s meltdown with style, including tips on what to say and do to have everyone land okay.

Ever asked the kids how their day was and had no response? Here are ways to find out what’s really going on in your child’s life.